I know what you’re thinking, “When can I finally tell her everything? When can I be completely honest without destroying what’s left of my marriage?”

That’s a tough question, and it deserves a straight answer.

You don’t open up all at once, you open up when your behavior has stabilized and you’ve built a safe disclosure plan.

Inside the Porn Reboot™ System, I don’t tell men to dump all their secrets in one night. That’s a disaster waiting to happen.

You prepare first, you get grounded, you build trust through consistency, and you learn how to communicate the right way.

For most men, that point comes around 1–3 months in, once they’ve built enough stability and emotional control to handle the conversation with clarity and integrity.

That’s when honesty becomes healing instead of harm.

When you’ve put in the work, your wife will sense it. She’ll see a man who’s taking responsibility not hiding, not blaming, not collapsing. And that’s when she can finally start to trust again.

Watch the video and I’ll walk you through how to prepare for disclosure, when to do it, and how to make it safe for both of you.