I’m glad you could make it. I hope you’re ready for an amazing journey.
My name is J.K Emezi and I’m a recovered porn addict and founder of Elevated Recovery International.It took me 6 years of concentrated effort to overcome my porn addiction which began at the age of 13 years old.
For the past 6 years, I’ve helped men regain control of their sexual lives, overcome sexual and social anxiety, improve their relationships, masculinity and grow more vulnerable.
It is, WITHOUT A DOUBT possible to overcome your addiction to porn, masturbation and other sexually compulsive disorders while building healthy, fulfilling relationships with women. I’ve done it and the men I work with have done so as well.
I’m not a therapist or a psychologist. I founded Elevated Recovery to share the lessons I learned on my journey and since then, I’ve developed my own very effective systems for recovering from pornography, sexual addiction and anxiety.
I’ve been on the long, painful journey to recovery in the age of internet pornography and I have been successful. Because I spent so much time in the trenches of overcoming pornography and the complication associated with it, such as, low self esteem erectile dysfunction, social anxiety, depression and much more, I’m able to see the bigger picture that 99% of men who are addicted to porn or unsuccessful with women don’t see.
Why Should I Listen To You?
Everything I speak about is based on my personal recovery experience, my training and backed by the results of hundreds of clients who have successfully overcome their sexually compulsive disorders through my coaching and services. I’m no “guru”, nor do I have any interest in debating the semantics/meaning of pornography and sexual addiction. If you don’t agree with what I have to say, you’re welcome to return to the corner of the internet you came from to debate and intellectualize all day long. I’ll still be here serving those who are no longer in denial and serious about addiction recovery and living their life to its full potential.
I’m guy who spent over a decade of his life addicted to watching porn and masturbation. I took responsibility for my life, read hundreds of books and learned from dozens of mentors, including some of the most prominent therapists and experts in the field on how to overcome my addiction.
I’m more than happy to share all my accumulated knowledge and experience with you.
How did you get into this?
This isn’t my first career. Over the past decade, I’ve been the Director of several large sales organizations in the corporate world and run an elite international internship program for college students. Since I’ve been fortunate enough to recover from my addiction, I decided to make it my purpose to help men who were once trapped pornography and lost in their lives.
Thanks to my past experience in high pressure professional environments I work well with doctors, lawyers, professors, businessmen, and other professionals.
What experience do you have?
I grew up in a very conservative and religious family. As a result, I developed a lot of sexual shame during my childhood which led to porn use. I was awkward and weird around women from my early teens till my early twenties. It was only then that I decided to fix my life.
Sexual shame is deeply connected to pornography addiction, sexually compulsive behaviors and a lackluster sexual life. Pornography is viewed in private and shame thrives when it is hidden. This is why many men have a problem navigating our current dating landscape. Fear of rejection,anxiety around women, lack of confidence, nice guy syndrome and a dilution of masculinity are some of the many symptoms of sexual shame.
My journey to recovery began when I almost crossed the lined from watching porn to acting out.Those experiences led me to seek out mentors, and consume every resource on addiction recovery I could find. I applied what I learned to myself and developed the beliefs, values and mindset that led to my eventual recovery.
One of the reasons why overcoming anxiety is a part of my teachings is because I have a lot of history with failure in social interaction and dating.. I had a deep longing for a romantic connection with a woman for most of my teens and twenties. Porn was the only way I could fill that void. I spent many years doing the self work necessary to rebuild my masculinity,self esteem, overcome porn, love myself and become the man that I am today.
The methods I teach work for bad porn habits, addictions and ALL sorts of sexually compulsive disorders while building your skills in intimate relationships as well as more casual relationships. I’ve learned from some of the best, and I’m still learning everyday.
Most of all, I help men find that freedom and peace which is the true definition of success. Nothing brings more happiness and satisfaction than freedom from your chains and peace of mind
Can We Work Together?
My services aren’t for everyone…and that’s o.k. If I don’t think there’s an opportunity to make a major impact, I’ll tell you that. Due to the demands on my schedule, there is usually a wait list to speak to me 1 on 1.You may apply here: Apply for a Free 1 on 1 Consult
Your journey towards recovery may be long and frustrating. That’s o.k. Really. You will get to your destination.If your are determined, its is inevitable. To truly recovery, you have to be give it your best shot every day of your life and go to bed knowing that you did your best within the circumstances that life thrust you in. That’s what bring true freedom and peace back to your life.