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My Last Year of Coaching

It’s my 40th birthday today.

And I have decided that this will be my last year coaching.

Before I explain what that means, please allow me to share some basic data.

I’ve been porn free and rebooted for 16 years now.

I’ve been coaching for 12 years.

There are many stats I can share – but the most important one is the men who ended their out-of-control behavior.

In all honesty, my tracking of rebooted clients was sloppy till 2020, when I actually hired someone to track rebooted brothers.

All men were full-time members of our program. This data does not include the hundreds of men who ended or controlled their behavior using our free resources, nor does it include those still in the program who have yet to reboot.

  • 2020: 282 men
  • 2021: 238 men
  • 2022: 264 men
  • 2023: 323 men (out of those who enrolled in Dec 2022)

I don’t know if those numbers are “impressive” or not because I don’t give a sh*t what any other program or therapist accomplishes.

What I do know is that these men were done with this behavior inside of a year; their behavior was tracked, and their lives were transformed.

I love reboot coaching. It changed my life, the life of the Elevated Recovery team, and that of thousands of men.

However, as you can see from the numbers above – my impact is limited.

If we could add a “0” to the end of those numbers every two years or so, the world would be a much better place.

Growing older has me thinking of the impact I can make and HOW I can make it.

Right now – it isn’t through coaching. And let’s keep it real – 16 years is a long time. I don’t know what’s out there these days in terms of porn. I just know how to free men from its bondage.

The world is rapidly sexualizing and morally rotting.

You see it.

Sex trafficking, Onlyfans, AI girlfriends, normalization of child s*xual abuse…

It’s disgusting.

It is time for PornReboot to become a movement.

A force beyond me. Something which every rebooted man can teach other men.

That’s why 2024 will be my last year coaching men in groups.

I will still coach select clients one-on-one on a limited basis. You can learn more about that here.

I will remain the CEO of Elevated Recovery, but coaching in Elevated Recovery will be carried by our Certified Reboot Coaches – men who have been my personal clients and trained with me for 2-4 years while demonstrating mastery of their reboot.

Remember, we have coaching 7 Days a week in the Implementation program – sessions also run by Coach Milan, Dr. Eastman, etc. Personally, I will continue to coach my a$$ off until the end of this year.

Our goal is 700 men rebooted. More than double last year.

You can still catch me group coaching in the Implementation Program and every week in the Intensive program (which includes 1-1 coaching every Wednesday afternoon) through December 2024.

If you’d like to be one of my few one-on-one clients (very few men will qualify) – click here and watch this video:

If you’d like to be coached by me during this last year of coaching to end your out-of-control behavior, schedule a call with my team here:

Your brother in this struggle,

J.K Emezi

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“OMG It’s So F*cking Hard to Quit Porn!”

OMG It’s So F*cking Hard to Quit Porn!

I hear it all the time.

“Oh my God, J.K., it’s so hard to quit. The urges are overwhelming and won’t go away. The withdrawals are unbearable and it’s been like this for days.”

Here’s what I have to say to that, brother.

So what?

Yeah, it’s hard. I’m not going to make light of it. It’s not easy to quit porn. You’ve spent your entire life giving in to the urges every time they come up because you can’t handle sitting with the pain and discomfort it takes to overcome them.

It’s not just that way for you, brother. It’s difficult for everyone who struggles with porn addiction problems. The truth is, no one can make it any less hard. You can complain all you’d like but you’re only going to make it more difficult for yourself.

You can’t go through life without pain. It’s impossible. Difficult experiences are an inevitable part of the human condition. You can’t avoid them no matter what you do.

When you’re in the beginning stages of your reboot, the truth of this is impossible to hide from. You’re finally starting to realize that you’ve spent your entire life medicating with porn and masturbation. You don’t know how to handle challenges when they arise. You can’t sit with these feelings because you’ve never had the strength to do so before.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t learn.

That’s what the Porn Reboot system is here to do. It’s here to equip you with the tools you need to work through the discomfort. You become part of a group that understands exactly what you’re going through. We’re here to prop you up when you need it and support you during the tough times. But none of the support we offer can match the inner strength you’ll build using the system.

If you only focus on the difficulty you’re making things much harder than they need to be. Instead, focus on developing the skills that will help you overcome your porn addiction and compulsive sexual behavior. You’re going to build up the different areas of your life you’ve spent months and years neglecting.

Sure, it’s not an easy process. You may even slip up from time to time in the beginning. But instead of slipping and giving up, you’re surrounded by people who will encourage you to get right back on the path. You’ll feel encouraged by the brotherhood instead of beaten down by your behavior for the first time in your life.

When you throw yourself fully into rebooting, you stop thinking so much about how hard it is to quit porn. You have a new goal to focus on now. You’ll continue applying the right strategies, making changes to your environment, and learning how to manage your emotions. You begin to notice areas that are lacking and work on them without any external influence. And this will happen before you even realize it.

Again, I know it isn’t easy, brother. I never promised you it would be easy. Rebooting is a long, difficult process. The thing I can promise you, though, is that it’s worth it. Every difficult day, each challenge that comes up, all the things you get through, they’re going to be worth it in the end. When you look back and realize you overcame your porn addiction and compulsive sexual behavior, the arduous journey will be worth every step it took.

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